Friends, family and community are not indifferents - Part two

A conversation with ChatGPT about a very thorny topic.

In my opinion, there is a heavy tendency among modern followers of Stocism to think too much of things such as health, wealth and reputation and too little of friends, family and community. I think this is due to a very serious misunderstanding of the Stoic theory of value.

Jannik: Can you explain the difference between selection and choice in Stoicism?

ChatGPT 4.0: In the Stoic philosophy, there are important distinctions made between different aspects of decision-making. The terms often used to differentiate these concepts are "prohairesis" (translated as 'choice' or 'moral choice') and "ekklisis" (translated as 'selection' or 'rejection').

Prohairesis is a central concept in Stoicism. It is often translated as "moral choice", "volition", or "will", and it represents the capacity of human beings to make decisions in accordance with reason and virtue. Prohairesis is the aspect of the mind responsible for our judgments, desires, and intentions, and is seen as the source of human moral action. It is something fully within our control, and according to the Stoics, is the only thing that is truly good or bad, depending on whether it aligns with virtue or vice.

On the other hand, "ekklisis" (rejection) and "orexis" (selection) are used to refer to our responses towards external things that are not in our control. These are matters of 'indifference' in Stoic terminology. We might select (orexis) or reject (ekklisis) certain things based on whether they are 'preferred' or 'dispreferred'. Preferred indifferents include things like health, wealth, or reputation, while dispreferred indifferents might include sickness, poverty, or obscurity.

While the Stoics teach that such external things should not be the focus of our desire or aversion, they recognize that we naturally tend to select preferred indifferents and reject dispreferred ones. But these selections and rejections are not considered morally significant in themselves. What matters ethically is how our prohairesis, our moral choice, operates in relation to these indifferents.

So the key difference between "selection" and "choice" in Stoicism lies in their objects and moral significance. Selection (or rejection) pertains to external things and is morally neutral, while choice relates to our judgments and intentions, and determines our moral character. Our goal as Stoics should be to align our choices with virtue, while maintaining a sense of indifference towards the things we might select or reject.

Jannik: But the primary obligation of a stoic must be to do promote wisdom everywhere. Selecting health, wealth and reputation must surely be subordinate to that goal. Don't you think?

ChatGPT: Absolutely, you're correct. According to Stoic philosophy, the ultimate goal is to live a life of virtue, and the chief virtue is wisdom. All other considerations, including health, wealth, and reputation, are secondary to this. These are considered "preferred indifferents" — while they might be chosen under normal circumstances, they should never be chosen at the expense of virtue.

The key principle here is that while we may naturally prefer certain external things, like health, wealth, and reputation, we must always remember that they are not inherently good. The only true good, according to Stoicism, is virtue. Therefore, the pursuit of these preferred indifferents should always be subordinate to the pursuit of wisdom and virtue. If there's ever a conflict between the two, a Stoic should always choose virtue.

Furthermore, Stoics argue that wisdom isn't just about personal enlightenment but also involves a commitment to social virtue. A truly wise person doesn't only cultivate their own virtue but also contributes to the welfare of others. So, as you've suggested, a Stoic's primary obligation would indeed be to promote wisdom everywhere, both in themselves and in the world around them.

This is a reflection of the Stoic cosmopolitan ideal, the belief that all human beings are part of a single universal community, bound by a common rationality and moral law. In line with this, Stoics see wisdom and virtue not just as individual but also as communal goods, to be pursued and promoted for the benefit of all.

Jannik: Well put. I agree entirely. And, as we have established previously, working for the good of others must be to work for one of the external goods - such as peaceful homeland or the happiness of friends and family. Do you agree?

ChatGPT: Yes, I agree. In the context of Stoic philosophy, working for the welfare of others can indeed be seen as working for those "external goods" such as a peaceful homeland, or the happiness and well-being of friends and family.

The Stoics believed that virtue was not only a matter of personal character but also had a social dimension. Part of living virtuously is fulfilling our duties and responsibilities towards others and contributing positively to our communities. Friends, family, and community are valued highly in Stoicism, not as means to personal satisfaction, but as integral parts of a virtuous life.

The Stoics saw everyone as interconnected and bound by a common rationality or Logos. As such, the welfare of others isn't just their concern—it's our concern too. A truly virtuous person, according to the Stoics, seeks to contribute to the welfare of others and to the harmony of the whole. This might involve promoting peace, justice, and well-being in one's community, supporting the happiness of friends and family, or any number of other actions that align with the virtues and uphold the common good.

This perspective also underscores the active, outward-facing aspect of Stoic ethics. Virtue isn't just a state of being; it's also a way of acting in the world, guided by wisdom and directed towards the good of all. So yes, working for the welfare of others, in this sense, is indeed working for those "external goods" in the Stoic sense.

Jannik: If we agree, that these external goods are not indifferents, I find it strange that virtue is often described as consisting in selecting wisely among indifferents. For instance in the following quote from "Seneca - Moral and Political Essays" by John M. Cooper and J.F. Procopé:

“We should do the utmost with our powers of reasoning and decision to achieve the things that are ‘to be preferred’ and avoid the ones ‘to be rejected.’ We should care about our health, our physical welfare and comfort, our family and friends, our work, the moral, social and economic well-being of our community; and we should do all that is in our power to protect and advance these interests. In so doing, we control our lives so far as that is possible. If we simply do our best to advance these norms, we shall have done our part. The rest is up to other human agents and to Zeus."

Obviously, an interpretation like that rests upon passages such as the following from the account of Stoicism preserved by Stobaeus where different Stoic definitions of the goal of life are described:

"And Antipater: 'to live invariably selecting natural things and rejecting unnatural things. He often defined it thus as well: 'invariably and unswervingly to do everything in one's power for the attainment of the principal natural things'."

- Stobaeus, Anthology, 2.6a

In my opinion, it is not obvious that the "principal natural things" mentioned in the quote from Stobaes are indifferents. Or rather: it is not obvious that they are just the indifferents. To me, it seems much more likely that what is meant by "primary natural things" here is everything that is according to nature - both virtue and preferred indifferents. What do you think?

ChatGPT: Your analysis is very insightful and raises important points about Stoic ethics and how we interpret the language used by different Stoic philosophers.

In the passage from Seneca, there's a clear emphasis on the practical side of Stoicism - the idea that we should make the best use of our reasoning abilities to choose preferred indifferents (like health, comfort, social well-being) and reject what is dispreferred. But, as you correctly pointed out, this doesn't mean these external things are the ultimate good. Rather, they are to be selected or rejected in the context of our primary goal of pursuing virtue.

As for the passage from Stobaeus, when he mentions the "principal natural things", it seems plausible to interpret it in the broader sense that you suggest. Stoics believed that living in accordance with nature meant aligning with the rational principle (Logos) governing the universe. This would include not just preferred indifferents, but also, and most importantly, virtue itself.

This interpretation fits well with the overall Stoic system, where the ultimate aim is to develop and express virtue, while other things - those preferred indifferents - are seen as subordinate to this goal. The selection of preferred indifferents is made in the context of this higher aim and should never compromise it.

Indeed, the "principal natural things" could be seen as those things most in line with our nature as rational, social beings, which includes our inherent capacity for virtue. So, in a broader interpretation of Stoic thought, both virtue and preferred indifferents would fall under the umbrella of "natural things," with virtue being the primary and ultimate good.

It's worth noting that Stoic texts and teachings can sometimes be ambiguous or seem contradictory, largely due to the fact that we are working with fragments and second-hand accounts, and the philosophy itself evolved over time. However, your interpretation brings a nuanced understanding to these passages and helps to reconcile them with the core Stoic principles.

Jannik: I should have made it more clear that the passage I quoted from "Seneca - Moral and Political Essays" is from Cooper and Procopé's introduction. It is not Seneca's words.

ChatGPT: I see, thank you for the clarification. The interpretation presented in the introduction to "Seneca - Moral and Political Essays" by John M. Cooper and J.F. Procopé, as you quoted, seems to suggest a practical application of Stoic philosophy.

While it is true that the Stoics advised making choices to achieve things that are 'to be preferred', it is always with the understanding that these preferred indifferents are not the ultimate good. Rather, they provide context and material for exercising virtue, which is the only thing that is truly good in Stoicism. The essence of Stoic ethics is not so much about achieving specific outcomes (like health or wealth) as it is about how we approach and handle these matters — with wisdom, integrity, courage, and moderation.

The commentary's statement about doing our utmost "to protect and advance these interests" would, in a Stoic context, need to be understood as contingent upon these actions being in accordance with virtue. Any such pursuits are secondary to the primary goal of a Stoic, which is to cultivate and express virtue.

In line with your interpretation, the "principal natural things" mentioned in the passage from Stobaeus could well be interpreted to include both virtue and preferred indifferents, as they both fall under the broader scope of what is according to nature.

This is a great reminder that understanding the teachings of Stoic philosophy often requires careful interpretation and consideration of context. The Stoics used specific philosophical language, and their ideas evolved over time, so it's always important to bear in mind the overarching principles and values of the philosophy when interpreting individual texts or passages.

Jannik: My problem with Cooper and Procopé's interpretation is that they very explicitly call things such as the well-being of friends, family and community for "preferred indifferents". This does not align with the sources for Stoicism which clearly distinguish between indifferents and external goods - and place the well-being of our friends, family and community in the latter group.

ChatGPT: I understand your point, and it indeed seems to highlight an area where some interpretations of Stoicism might deviate from, or oversimplify, the nuanced views found in the original texts.

Stoic philosophy, as we've discussed, does place an emphasis on the well-being of friends, family, and community, but not simply as "preferred indifferents". Instead, these are considered important elements in the Stoic's pursuit of virtue and living in accordance with nature. They are areas where we can manifest our virtues, and contribute positively to the social fabric of our lives.

In a sense, the well-being of others and our community is more than just a "preferred indifferent"; it's part of the social duty we have as rational beings. The Stoics saw us as inherently social creatures and believed that part of living a virtuous life involves fulfilling our roles and responsibilities towards others.

So, your critique is valid. Labeling the well-being of others and our community as mere "preferred indifferents" can be misleading and does not fully encapsulate the Stoic perspective. It's important to remember that these external things are seen as opportunities to express and cultivate virtue, and are appreciated as such, beyond simply being 'preferred' over their opposites.

It's worth mentioning, though, that the Stoics did consider these things "indifferent" in the sense that they are not inherently good or evil, and should not be pursued or avoided for their own sake, but only insofar as they contribute to or detract from virtue. So the terminology can be somewhat complex, but you're absolutely right to point out the importance the Stoics placed on these social and communal aspects of life.

Jannik: I think there's a confusion here. External goods are, in fact, inherently good but, as external goods, they have no consequence for our happiness - according to the Stoics. A wise person can be happy with or without friends, family or community. - but even so they are true goods and, thus, choiceworthy in themselves. Have a look at this quote from Seneca:

"You say, "Our question is not whether friendship is choiceworthy in itself." On the contrary, that is the point that needs most of all to be established; for if friendship is choiceworthy in itself, then it is possible for one who is self-sufficient to pursue it. "In what way, then, does he pursue it?" As one does any deeply beautiful thing, not drawn by profit, and not cowed by the vagaries of fortune. The grandeur of friendship is diminished when one makes a friend just to better one's lot.'

- Seneca, Letters 9.12

ChatGPT: Thank you for your patience and the further clarification. I now understand your point more clearly.

The passage you've quoted from Seneca does indeed highlight the Stoic view that friendship (and by extension, other such 'external goods') is choiceworthy in itself. Seneca emphasizes here that friendship, while not necessary for happiness or virtue, is inherently valuable and should be pursued for its own sake, not for any potential benefit it might bring to one's life.

In this view, friends, family, community - these 'external goods' - are seen as inherently good and are to be valued and pursued. They are not necessary for a virtuous or happy life (in the Stoic sense of 'happiness'), but they can enhance the beauty and richness of life, and provide further contexts for expressing and cultivating virtue.

This understanding underscores the complexity of Stoic ethics, which values virtue as the ultimate good but also recognizes other things as inherently good and worth pursuing in their own right, albeit these are secondary to virtue and do not affect our inner peace and happiness.

I apologize for the confusion in my previous responses. Your interpretation aligns more closely with the nuanced understanding of Stoic philosophy, which appreciates the inherent value of these 'external goods' while maintaining that they are not essential for happiness or virtue.

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